Life is messy.

We don't have to be.

Hi! I’m Shantelle and I’ll help you ditch perfectionism for a life led by your OWN intuition.

I’ve written three books that support you in releasing the pressure of a perfect life, in exchange for a life that you love, all Without Losing Your Cool.

Over five decades (almost six but who's counting) I've learned a lot, and I want to share all of it with you. That's why I created the world of Without Losing Your Cool. So buckle in, it's been a wild ride!

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Testimonials

★★★★★

"It’s hard to write a book that matters, and even harder to bare your soul in it, but Shantelle has done just that — she holds nothing back and is honest, engaging, funny, and insightful."

Arlene Dickinson
CEO of Venture Communications
★★★★★

"This read is a necessity for those wanting an unfiltered yet empowering approach to parenting. Shantelle's narrative is both honest and comforting, invoking tears to belly laughs. Put your seatbelt on for this ride which takes you from losing your cool to intuitively knowing that you got this."

Nina Purewal
International Bestselling Author of Let That Sh*t Go
★★★★★

She brilliantly walks the line of being healthy parents who fiercely love and care for our children, without falling off on either the side of sacrificing our identity and relationships as they become the center of our universe, or the side of sacrificing them to our life and ambitions.

Mom
★★★★★

Shantelle delivers an honest and refreshing approach to parenting where she reflects on some parenting wins as well as acknowledging major learning experiences. Parenting isn’t about being perfect all the time and Shantelle guides us through the hiccups parents encounter that can leave us feeling like we are alone.

Verified Customer Review
★★★★★

This book is amazing. It has been an incredible resource in connecting with my child and my husband. This book is full of practical wisdom and gives you a sense of relatability. Give yourself the gift of this book, and the knowledge it provides. If you are looking for ways to be a more positive parent and spouse you won’t be disappointed by this one!

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